Attended
a workshop about impromptu speaking last night and really enjoyed what I had
been taught. It was not the first time I attended this kind of workshop but perhaps
the speaker yesterday gave me something more impactful and inspired me to think
not only on the ways of making myself a better impromptu speaker but also in a
bigger picture, how to change from a quiet introvert to an outgoing and more
sociable extrovert who is usually seemed to have better communication and
interpersonal skills. The speaker showed us the comments given by his teachers
on the report cards to show that he was not good at interacting and socializing
with people when he was in schools but what happened after his graduation encouraged
him to improve himself and his own efforts made him an excellent communicator
and professional trainer of sales and interpersonal skills.
Three
useful formulas to prepare an impromptu speech that he shared – PREP, Pendulum
and 5W1H. PREP is about how a speech can be structure and organized by using
the formula of point (agree/disagree) + reason + example / elaboration / story
+ point (summary / restatement / conclusion). Pendulum is about giving the listener
the freedom to make his own decision by analyzing certain things in detailed without
bias. 5W1H is about using “What, Who, Why, Where, Which and How” to ask questions
and generating the content of an impromptu speech. In addition, there are two
more tips. Firstly, for a topic with a long and complicated title, speakers
should only focus on a few key words and avoid explaining the title at length
to avoid misunderstanding and make full use of the time. Secondly, if the topic
is something very specific that a speaker without prior knowledge on, “reframing”
technique could be used in preparing a speech in short time. By “chunking up” a
certain topic, things tend to be more general and with that, we could link the
existing topic to something that we are more familiar with. The speaker gave a
good example by sharing with us how Mr.Tony Tan, the ex- president answered a
question raised by someone during the presidential election, “What was the
biggest mistake that you ever made in your career?”
“Practise
makes progress” We can only progress in what we are learning if we constantly
make an effort to practise it. The speaker shared with us how he made use of
his toilet time to practise his impromptu speech by using the quote of the day
on the newspaper as the title. And only by repeating the practise numerous
times, he made a breakthrough in his skill. Lacking of motivation, I must admit
that I put almost zero time to practise my impromptu speech even though I always
want to improve myself. An impromptu speech needs only a few minutes and it does
not cost much of my precious time, I believe I can afford to repeat it a few
times per day under the same topic. There will be an impromptu speaking competition
on 6 March 2018, 13days from now. I want to challenge myself how much can I learn
and progress in delivering an impromptu speech if I put in real effort every
day. Let me start from today to make a difference!
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