Am I socially anxious? Do I desperately want to
make new friends and extend social circle, but I am just too fearful and don’t
know how to reach out to others? Am I trying to avoid social situation? I don’t
know but I believe that I never build up my confidence interacting with others
and I am not good in communicate to others, be it in words or body languages.
And perhaps I should have taken measures to tackle this problem long ago but I
simply underestimated how big the impact the soft skill could bring to my
personal life, career, mental health etc. It’s never too late to find out and
the first step is always the willingness to acknowledge the weakness and the
readiness to do something on it. People aren’t born with good communication
skills, they are acquired through trial and error and repeated practices. There
will be no foreseeable changes ahead unless one starts focusing on the exact
problem and squeezing the brain juice out to think of any possible solution,
then, dares to take action even sometimes the action itself requires one to
smash his head against the wall just to learn a lesson or two. ...There is no
short cut other than face it bravely, willingly and happily.
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